I am troubled by the fact that friends of mine, who come to New York fairly often, never contact me when they are here. I've queried, in simply a curious manner, a number of times about this and always get the response that they are too busy while they are here, too many people to fit in.
But I've never once, in a year or two now, been on the list of that "too many people", and I wonder what this means.
I know that it leaves me feeling neglected and unfriended, despite protestations. Is that unreasonable?